Mr. Diva and I had were sitting on our back porch last evening recapping our ever-eventful day when our conversation took a turn toward the past.  Mr. Diva asked me a question I can’t believe neither of us ever asked before - “When did you know you were in love with me?”  I recall when he first told me he loved me.  I remember knowing it was coming before I had wanted to say it all day too.  I knew when I’d keep him around for more than a few dates.  He willingly went into the garage with my dad to help him finish a tabletop.  I can easily tell you when I told him I wanted to be married to him.  So I had to put some thought around when I knew I loved him.

Take me back 10 years, I knew I loved him but I didn’t know why; I just did.  Today I can tell you that I knew I loved him when I didn’t just think of the fun we had together but when I thought of just his smile and his voice.  When the thought of his touch on my arm gave me chills even when we were hundreds of miles apart.  When I worried not about what he was doing but how he was doing instead.

Can you pinpoint when you fell in love with you spouse?  Is there a moment in your head you can recall or just a feeling?