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Is Your Netflix Queue Ruining Your Marriage?

Posted by Heather on April 8th, 2009

I recently read a great article about how a cozy, cuddly evening at home with a movie can turn into an epic battle because of the dreaded Netflix queue.  I’m not running out to get a divorce attorney over his love of all films corny, but it does require a bit of finesse on my part as I am the Keeper of the Queue.  Initially, we were on the 1 movie at a time plan.  That wasn’t working.  We’re now on the 2 movie plan and it’s working out alright for us.

I am a great lover of horror films, indie flicks and documentaries.  My husband likes crap movies of the campy, slapstick and sci-fi variety.  For example, this weekend we had My Name is Bruce starring Bruce Campbell of Army of Darkness fame and The Good Girl starring Jennifer Aniston.  Very different films for two people who love each other enough to watch them together.  I wanted to hang myself about 10 minutes into My Name is Bruce and his hatred of Jake Gyllenhaal caused him to discount The Good Girl fairly quickly.  I ask you, how can you hate Jake Gyllenhaal?

We do agree on some movies, we watched the Dead Like Me while cuddled in bed on Sunday afternoon on the computer so we’re not competely hopeless in the cinema department.  But any woman who has had to sit through Logan’s Run on a Saturday evening knows where I’m coming from here.

Anyone else have a Netflix knockdown in your relationship?

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Funny! I need to send this article to my husband to prove that other people go through the same things we do. In my case, my husband is Queue Keeper and I always accuse him of conspiring to rank down my picks… its just funny that we will frequently get two movies, both his pick when we are supposed to have one each! (We have the two movies at a time plan).

Su Prieta, you do know that you each can have your own Queue right? You can allow 1 movie to be allotted to each of you and have separate queues.

Once we divided the Queues it made it a lot easier.

OMG DJ - I had no idea this could be done. I know what I’M doing tonight! Thanks for the time.

This opens a whole new world for us, doesn’t Su? :-)

Indeed it does! I feel better knowing that I have other options. Although, I would still like to try to work things out with my husband on a single queue. Somehow, I need to know that we can work together and work it out! LOL!

I’m also putting a link to this article on my website tomorrow to give a heads-up to other Netflix couples!

[...] Is Your Netflix Queue Ruining Your Marriage? – Heather over at Marriage Diva, citing Netflix Queues Destroying Happy Couples Across the US of A by Hortense at Jezebel, reminds us that there is an art to being the “Keeper of the Queue” for couples using Netflix.  Some of us have a lot to learn… Ehem, hubby? [...]

We have the 3 out at a time plan, one queue for him, one for me & one for the kids! My husband and I have very different tastes in movies so this has worked out very well for us.



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