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		<link>http://marriagediva.com/2009/04/04/how-soon-is-too-soon/comment-page-1/#comment-65650</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 01:49:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>pretty nice post, thank you for your sharing.</description>
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		<title>By: Cynthia</title>
		<link>http://marriagediva.com/2009/04/04/how-soon-is-too-soon/comment-page-1/#comment-61179</link>
		<dc:creator>Cynthia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 16:55:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it all depends.    everyone does grieves differntly... also.. how old is the widower? Widow?  My mother in-law just passed in september 2011  and my father in-law loved her deeply but he is also lonley.. he loves to dance and have fun.. a companion would do him well.  So it all depends on what type of 'dating' your talking..    also  you never know when your # is up either..     who are you to judge?  to say it is too soon?  IF they are ready they are ready..   let them have fun but also be there for support..   if they need you and ask you if you like that person.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it all depends.    everyone does grieves differntly&#8230; also.. how old is the widower? Widow?  My mother in-law just passed in september 2011  and my father in-law loved her deeply but he is also lonley.. he loves to dance and have fun.. a companion would do him well.  So it all depends on what type of &#8216;dating&#8217; your talking..    also  you never know when your # is up either..     who are you to judge?  to say it is too soon?  IF they are ready they are ready..   let them have fun but also be there for support..   if they need you and ask you if you like that person.</p>
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		<title>By: Char612</title>
		<link>http://marriagediva.com/2009/04/04/how-soon-is-too-soon/comment-page-1/#comment-51313</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2011 15:41:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I feel for the Pissed off relative story. 
My step father did the same thing after being so committed to my mom for 20 years of marriage. He was so distraught after my his wife, my mom died so suddenly that we felt so sorry for him. In a nut shell he latched on to us to nearly the point of smothering us. We felt very sad for him and stood with him and comforted him daily. He began nearly begging us to move in with him. We did not, but we decided to buy the house right behind him even though it went against our better judgment. Well after we changed our whole life for him 10 days after we moved into the new house that cost us a fortune, him he starts dating and has now remarried after 8 in half months and has broken every promise to us and my 10 year old daughter. I tried to stay in a relationship with him but to no avail so now we have parted ways. I feel for him that he could not stand to be alone and can understand that somewhat but to use us and my daughter and then throw us aside like we hardly exist is so very wrong. So now that my grieving has been interrupted I can now focus on the loss of my wonderful mom.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel for the Pissed off relative story.<br />
My step father did the same thing after being so committed to my mom for 20 years of marriage. He was so distraught after my his wife, my mom died so suddenly that we felt so sorry for him. In a nut shell he latched on to us to nearly the point of smothering us. We felt very sad for him and stood with him and comforted him daily. He began nearly begging us to move in with him. We did not, but we decided to buy the house right behind him even though it went against our better judgment. Well after we changed our whole life for him 10 days after we moved into the new house that cost us a fortune, him he starts dating and has now remarried after 8 in half months and has broken every promise to us and my 10 year old daughter. I tried to stay in a relationship with him but to no avail so now we have parted ways. I feel for him that he could not stand to be alone and can understand that somewhat but to use us and my daughter and then throw us aside like we hardly exist is so very wrong. So now that my grieving has been interrupted I can now focus on the loss of my wonderful mom.</p>
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		<link>http://marriagediva.com/2009/04/04/how-soon-is-too-soon/comment-page-1/#comment-43982</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2011 04:51:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 07:41:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Pissed off relative</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Aug 2011 14:05:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a relative that buried his wife, then 3 weeks later started dating her friend... started living together 4 months later, and are marrying 8 months after his wife's death.  UNREAL!  Makes you doubt his loyalty to his wife while she was alive, yet alone what injustice he is doing to his in-laws of more than 15 years!  I want to say something to him because it disgusts me, but I know it won't do anything but exclude me from certain family members....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a relative that buried his wife, then 3 weeks later started dating her friend&#8230; started living together 4 months later, and are marrying 8 months after his wife&#8217;s death.  UNREAL!  Makes you doubt his loyalty to his wife while she was alive, yet alone what injustice he is doing to his in-laws of more than 15 years!  I want to say something to him because it disgusts me, but I know it won&#8217;t do anything but exclude me from certain family members&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Jeff</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2011 22:23:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, I found this post through a search and was wondering the same thing myself. I met a lovely widow with two beautiful kids who's husband passed just over three months ago. He was terminally ill for four months so it wasn't really too sudden. We are very naturally and strongly drawn to each other and it feels totally right to us both. But her family (particularly her late husband's) are far lees than accepting as we and her children obviously are. So what should we do now? Put it on hold? How long is long enough? Some are saying a year. But that's insane!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I found this post through a search and was wondering the same thing myself. I met a lovely widow with two beautiful kids who&#8217;s husband passed just over three months ago. He was terminally ill for four months so it wasn&#8217;t really too sudden. We are very naturally and strongly drawn to each other and it feels totally right to us both. But her family (particularly her late husband&#8217;s) are far lees than accepting as we and her children obviously are. So what should we do now? Put it on hold? How long is long enough? Some are saying a year. But that&#8217;s insane!</p>
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