Comments on: Are YOU in the 20 Percent? http://marriagediva.com/2008/12/07/are-you-in-the-20-percent/ Modern Marriage Musings brought to you by a Modern Married Woman Tue, 07 Feb 2012 17:19:18 +0000 hourly 1 By: Newlywed http://marriagediva.com/2008/12/07/are-you-in-the-20-percent/comment-page-1/#comment-7323 Newlywed Wed, 09 Mar 2011 19:56:44 +0000 http://marriagediva.com/?p=308#comment-7323 This may be the saddest case in the world, but we were married just over a year ago and have had sex twice in the last 12 months. If May gets here and we still haven't, that number will go to 0. I am very unhappy about it. He says he has a problem, but we have been to therapy and he is very obviously stauling on getting anything done about it, so it must be an excuse. The really sad part is we dated 17 years ago and he couldn't keep his hands off of me then. I'm a Christian and I had no idea there was a problem until we got married. I wanted to have a family and given my age, there is no chance that I can leave him and still find someone else before my clock ticks out. Plus, I believe the only grounds for divorce is adultery or abuse. This may be the saddest case in the world, but we were married just over a year ago and have had sex twice in the last 12 months. If May gets here and we still haven’t, that number will go to 0. I am very unhappy about it. He says he has a problem, but we have been to therapy and he is very obviously stauling on getting anything done about it, so it must be an excuse. The really sad part is we dated 17 years ago and he couldn’t keep his hands off of me then. I’m a Christian and I had no idea there was a problem until we got married. I wanted to have a family and given my age, there is no chance that I can leave him and still find someone else before my clock ticks out. Plus, I believe the only grounds for divorce is adultery or abuse.

]]> By: Divorce Saloon http://marriagediva.com/2008/12/07/are-you-in-the-20-percent/comment-page-1/#comment-861 Divorce Saloon Mon, 22 Dec 2008 03:12:55 +0000 http://marriagediva.com/?p=308#comment-861 In the law, that is a basis for a divorce. It's called constructive abandonment. In the law, that is a basis for a divorce. It’s called constructive abandonment.

]]> By: Husband Clothes http://marriagediva.com/2008/12/07/are-you-in-the-20-percent/comment-page-1/#comment-831 Husband Clothes Sun, 14 Dec 2008 02:56:15 +0000 http://marriagediva.com/?p=308#comment-831 AWWWWW!!! SO SAD! I mean sex isn't everything...but a whole YEAR?? Darn it. We gotta spice things up. We can't let all work and no play is make our marriages sexless. This must change! AWWWWW!!! SO SAD!

I mean sex isn’t everything…but a whole YEAR?? Darn it. We gotta spice things up. We can’t let all work and no play is make our marriages sexless. This must change!

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