Comments on: Help Me, I Hate My Husband

By: Sick of it Kerry

Sick of it Kerry — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 02:00:36 +0000

I do really feel sick now when I think of my husband He has every excuse in the world why he is not working..He has every other excuse to not spend time with his family and when he does he is either on the phone or laying down doing nothing..He claims to be christian but he makes me sick…I can’t be a good christian being married to him cause I feel like he makes me sick and evil..He loves to lay down and let his mommy serve him and he is forty five years old..I am not serving his lazy Buttt

By: anna blue

anna blue — Fri, 01 Jan 2010 16:22:46 +0000

I’ve been married for 20 years, rightnow I feel that these 20 years are the worst year of my life.I left him las july 2009 but it seems i felt i need him back but he is already in love with someone else. He said they never met yet but the fact that he love her and I really felt the girl is special to him makes my life worst. My family is to mad at him cause for 20 year I am the only one working and I fought for the marriage. It’s just that when I got sick and not able to work regularly he got cold on the relationship. I really don’t know what to do. I love him but I also hate him.

By: Monica

Monica — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 22:12:03 +0000

I am coming up to my 6th wedding anniversary, and I am wishing I could just leave the union. My husband, 2 decades older than me, spends more time playing video games than anything else, never says thank you for cleaning the house/doing laundry/etc, and I am just over it.

I did not enter into a union to feel like a caretaker. I asked him to just dance with me the other day, and it was such an ordeal for him.

I miss our time, and I have forgotten why I fell in love with him in the first place. His “I love you/I need you’s” tend to come when he has drank too much, rather than just spur of the moment.

Should I just walk away?

By: Marcia

Marcia — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 16:52:01 +0000

I have a suggestion for M that may or may not be possible. Get a job! My biggest concern is the financial stability of the household. Without it, everybody in the family goes downhill at an increasingly higher rate of speed. This way too, M can lighten the load that her husband has and give him a little breathing room. A job will also give M a new lease on life. “From your first day on the job M, you will have a new and improved outlook.” This new job of M’s may also allow him to ’self-correct’.

As for never having time alone together, it is possible M’s husband is suffering from such a low level of self-esteem right now that he doesn’t even want to be alone with himself. Let him have his space for now.