Comments on: 3 Ways To Stay Married

By: Heather

Heather — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 00:35:14 +0000

Going to bed with a man does take some getting used, all be the first to admit. I don’t think it’s important to go to bed together EVERY night (in fact Mr. Diva didn’t come to bed with me just last night) but there’s something to be said for settling in and falling asleep together on a somewhat regular basis. It’s quiet time to just be close. And there’s LOTS of value in naked time ;-).

By: April Blue

April Blue — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 21:36:55 +0000

I like the idea of saying that I love him bi writing it in prose. (I love the idea of saying it strictly with my great big green eyes eternally-actually! he she he )I think your beloved should always be intrigued by your mystery.
What if you arent used to going to bed with a man? What about that aspect? I am used to sleeping alone. I am used to going to bed whenever I feel like it. I can see the value of getting (naked)together as husband and wife but is it necessary every single night of your life? Is it?

By: Heather

Heather — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 21:47:18 +0000

I love the one about going to bed at the same time. It can be hard with internal clocks, but it’s so important to have that alone time!

By: Joan Zatorski

Joan Zatorski — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 18:07:11 +0000

The three rules suggested are good but I’d like to add the following:
- Say “I love you” at least once a day, with feeling, looking your spouse in the eyes (if possible!)
- Go to bed at the same time
(i.e together), unless you’re working different shifts or schedules, and ALWAYS kiss each other goodnight.
- Don’t fall asleep feeling angry at your spouse. Either work out the problem before falling asleep or agree on a specific time the next day when you’ll discuss the issue together, calmly.